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I’m a Ding-a-Ling

Ok…had to post really quick.

A gal over on Knittinghelp.com read a post I wrote about the movie Twilight.  She pointed out that the review I posted a link for is the WRONG movie!  It had the same title but was WAY different!

What a ding-bat I am, eh?

I couldn’t find a review (Christian-based) of the NEW movie, so I read reviews about the book instead.  I think I’m going to let Soccer Chick go to the movie under the admonition that she leave if there’s anything funny going on.  I’ll offer to pay her back if she makes the choice to leave.

According to the book reviews, abstinence from sex before marriage is one of the underlying themes.  Hmmm…interesting for the current day, eh?

I’ll give Soccer Chick the good news when she wakes up in the morning.

Sure is a good thing I didn’t call up her friend’s mom earlier, like I thought about.  I can just hear tongues wagging at my dumbness.

“Yeah, AuburnChick has been hitting the bottle a little too hard these days.  Gotta watch that one.”

I should probably go to bed now.

World’s Meanest Mom

Ok…I think I’ve cemented the title as World’s Meanest Mom.

Soccer Chick asked me what our plans for the weekend entailed.  Rooster will be playing in a tournament, and she wanted to make sure the games didn’t interfere with her plans.

“Plans to do what?” I inquired.

It would seem that a bunch of her friends are going to see the movie Twilight.

I know, from my recent subbing jobs, that this book is all the rage among the teenagers.  And of course, Hollywood has capitalized on a good thing by making a movie based on it.  Note the word “capitalized.”  Remember that this is always about money.

But I digress…sort of.

I know that the movie has something to do with vampires, and I believe it involves a love story.  My antennae immediately went up.  As a mom, I feel it is my duty to help my children learn to make good choices…choices based on our Christian beliefs.  This is not always popular.

I told Chicky that I would need to review it.  I heard her groan and say, sarcastically, “Of course you do.”

I visited this site, which I feel does a good job with its reviews.  It is Christian-based, but I like the summaries.  It did not let me down.

The summary appears in the yellow column on the right side of the screen.  It’s hard to argue with the facts, stated so simply.

I’ll admit that the violence doesn’t bother me too much.  Now, don’t go taking a stick to the computer to beat me.  We all have to pick our battles, and for the most part, that’s not where I come out fighting.

I do take issue with bad language and sexual content.  I absolutely have no tolerance for bad words or taking the Lord’s name in vain.  I cringe when I hear it on TV and purchased a TVGuardian (bought it on eBay) to block it from movies we have at home (yeah, I shouldn’t buy the movies in the first place, but it’s hard to find movies that don’t have any).  As I told Soccer Chick (anticipating her argument), I know you can walk through any hallway at school and hear the foul language, but why pay for it?  Why further desensitize yourself to it?

Sexual content is another very important consideration when screening movies.  Twilight has several scenes that contain nudity and other stuff.

It was like alarms went off when I read the review, and I hollered out the findings to Chicky.  She was not happy.  It seems that she is the “only” person who can’t go to movies.  I assured her that she may be one of the few in her crowd who won’t be going, but she’s not the only teenager in the world who will be sitting this one out.

It’s tough to walk a different path.  As Christians, we are mandated to make different choices.  It can be a lonely journey.  That’s why we are told that the path is narrow.  Not many have the courage to walk it.  I hope that Soccer Chick understands that I’m trying to train her to make these kinds of choices on her own…when she leaves home.  And I hope she understands that she is NOT alone.  God is walking that path with her, and His heart swells with pride for standing up for good morals and truth.

Please pray for her and all of us as we strive to live in such a way that people would look at us and wonder what makes us different.

Honoring My Commitment

Grrr…

Sometimes I hate having a conscience.  You know…the times when you know what you’re SUPPOSED to do, but you WANT to do something else?

Rockin’ Rooster has a game today, and it’s two hours away.  This normally does not pose a problem; however, because he’s on JV, he plays earlier.  In addition, he’s playing in a city that’s in a different time zone, so that makes the game one hour earlier my time.  Yeah, weird, I know, but Florida actually has two time zones, and it can wreak havoc on scheduling.

So, instead of playing at 5, he’s playing at 4.  I have to sub until 2:30 today, which makes it impossible to get to the game in time.  Who wants to drive two hours to watch 30 minutes of a game?  It’s a bit of a waste of gas and time.

I have to be honest here.  I considered calling in “sick” to my subbing job.  Boy did I toy with that.  But then I thought of the teacher who I’m subbing for.  She had left me the nicest note telling me she was out for a medical reason and how much she appreciated my being here.  It’s part of what made yesterday so much more rewarding.  I just didn’t think I could let her down today.

So, I obeyed my conscience, and God’s Word about doing what you say you’ll do, and I decided that I would sit out this game.  Mr. AuburnChick will be driving to the game, so at least Rooster will have one parent supporting him.

I’m totally bummed.  I do not like feeling torn.  But, I know that I made the right decision.

Soccer Chick and I will have a quiet evening.  Woo Hoo!  An evening with a hormonal, grumpy teenaged girl.  At least my conscience will be free of guilt.  Plus, I will know that I’ve set a good example for my children.  When you make a promise, you need to see it through.