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Little Brother to the Rescue

Guy Friend and his family have been out of town the last few days.  Chicky has been taking care of their dog, who is old and blind…and a true sweetheart.

Last night, Chicky decided to sleep at their house…just to make life easier for her.  She had to get up early to lifeguard, and she figured it would be more convenient if she was already at their house in the morning when she woke up.

She went over around 4pm, taking her laptop and other stuff to keep herself busy.

Later that evening, Rooster and I settled in to watch a free movie we had found through the On Demand service that my cable company provides.

Around 9:45, my cell phone rang.

It was Chicky.

“Mama, can I speak to Rooster?”

“What’s going on?” I asked.

“I’m in bed, but the house is too quiet.  I’m a little scared.  I wanted to ask Rooster if he will come spend the night here too.”

I handed the phone to Rooster.  After listening to her explain the situation, he said, “Well, Mama and I just started watching a movie, but we can finish it tomorrow.”

Then, he proceeded to gather his stuff together.  He had been scheduled to lifeguard with Chicky, so he grabbed his red trunks and other gear.  I have no idea if he even bothered to take his toothbrush.

Sometimes what a mama doesn’t know won’t hurt her.

😉

As Rooster departed, I couldn’t help but smile to myself.

Although he and Chicky had gotten into a ferocious argument a few days before, he put his annoyance aside when it counted most.

It’s such a relief to know that my babies (they’ll always be my babies, no matter how old they get) are looking out for each other.

This was one of those times that parents dream of…witnessing their children put their desires aside for the good of others…especially when the “others” are family members.

This is a memory that I will treasure in my heart for years to come.

Here on Saturday, Gone on Monday

Now you see it…

Now you don’t (imagine an empty driveway…I’m too lazy to take a picture).

As you might recall, the Mr. got a wild hair and decided to buy two cars on Saturday.

When he drove the PT Cruiser home from the used car lot, he noticed a hitch in the engine.  He took it back on Sunday, but the salesman, who didn’t want to lose the sale, asked if the car dealership could fix the car.

The Mr. agreed to take the car back in on Monday.

Well, Monday came, and the mechanics worked on it.

It was very clear that something was still wrong with the engine.

The salesman tried to entice the Mr. with another car…even trade…but the other cars weren’t up to the Mr.’s likings, so he declined.

The dealership refunded our money.

The Mr. came home without the car.

I don’t think I’ve ever owned a car for only two days, but I am glad that things worked out this way.  The car already had 98,000 miles on it, and I would have hated for the transmission to die while out on the road.  I know how kind Murphy’s Law can be.

Not.

The Mr. did tell the salesman that because the dealership had been so understanding, he would definitely look there for another car.  So, if you’re a local and want the name of a good place to go, let me know!

Meanwhile, the fight for the Mazda will rage on.

Wanna place your bet on who’s going to come out on top?

Just so you know, Chicky has Amazon Lady thighs…very muscular because of all of her soccer…and she has been known to put Rooster in a headlock (or should I say leglock).

Rooster, on the other hand, is nearly six feet tall, and he could easily squish Chicky in one step.

This.

Could.

Get.

Interesting.

Sibling Bonding

Chicky and Rooster have taken on a new challenge:  lifeguarding classes.

The course runs for seven nights (6 to 10) at our community college.

I figured this would be a neat sibling-bonding experience, and this is exactly what it’s turned out to be!

The first night of class, the Mr. and I anxiously waited for them to get home.

Chicky came in first, loudly announcing, “That was the worst thing I’ve ever had to do.  If I was a quitter, I would never go back.”

She then headed to the bathroom to grab a shower.

Rooster came in next and filled us in on the details.

See, although we’ve lived in Florida all of the kids’ lives, Chicky has never been particularly fond of “formal” swimming.

The kids learned to swim right after we moved to Miami.  This was the time I got to quit my job and become a stay-at-home mom.  Needing something to do with two children under the age of four, I took them swimming twice a day.

We would eat breakfast, let our tummies settle, and head out.  We went home in time for lunch and a nap.  Then, after a snack and a brief tummy-settling time, we headed back out for session #2.

Rooster learned to swim the summer he turned two, with Chicky learning around the same time.  She was four.

I paid for swimming lessons a few years later, just so they could learn how to do the strokes properly.

Chicky was not super fond of these sessions.

So, the kids grew up, attending pool parties and swimming pretty good.

Rooster swam on the middle school swim team during seventh and eighth grade.  He loved it!

Rooster’s coach was the nicest lady.  She also coached the high school team.

When Chicky tore her ACL in 9th grade, Coach offered to let her do laps with the high school team.  Swimming is one of the best cardio workouts and because it is non-weight-bearing, it is the perfect exercise when rehabbing.

Chicky showed up one morning, did a few laps, and declared herself non-swimming material.  She never went back.

With this history in mind, it’s a wonder she decided to take the lifeguard class in the first place!  But, the desire for a job and the money that goes along with it overruled her objections.

While she was in the shower, Rooster told us how she struggled during the 300 yard warm up.  100 freestyle, 100 breast stroke, and the last 100 whatever you wanted.

Chicky had no idea how to execute the breast stroke.  Kicking her legs out sideways really made her nervous given her knee stuff from years ago.  She’s uber-sensitive to some motions.

She doggy-paddled the last 100 yards, literally dog-tired.

Next, they had to swim from the shallow to the deep end of the pool, take a breath, and dive down to retrieve a 10lb brick and tote it back to the shallow end…in two minutes.

Chicky did pretty good, only coming up for air once before successfully grabbing the brick.

One other thing the students had to do was, while treading water, use the motion of their arms and hands to propel themselves up and then down through the water to touch bottom of the pool (11 feet, I think) with their toes.

Chicky has always been coordinated, but she could not get the hang of the motion.

Rooster said she kept going sideways under the water instead of straight down.

Poor girl.

Chicky came out of the shower, and it was Rooster’s turn, so we got Chicky’s side of the story.

She pretty much repeated the same things Rooster had said, but she told us something funny.

She said that at one point during the 300-yard warm-up, she got to the end of the pool, took a moment to catch her breath, and looked up at Rooster, asking, “Am I doing this right?”

Rooster squatted down and clapped his hands for her, encouraging her.

Oh my gosh, but when I heard this, my heart swelled with joy.

For those of you who have children who argue more than they hug, and I’m not talking hugging to squeeze the life out of the other, then let me give you this hope.

They do grow up.

They do wind up, most of the time, liking each other.

See, they have a commonality with each other that others don’t have.

They know what it’s like to be raised by their particular set of parents.  They can share the injustices of being grounded for “nothing,” doing chores til their fingers fell off (yeah, right), and eating burned food three nights in a row (heaven forbid).

The kids take the final test on Monday.  I have every confidence they’ll pass.

I also know that though my kids will have their own lives as they get older, they’ll always have this special week together.  It’s something they and I will cherish.