My sweet Chicky has been home all summer.
It has been w-o-n-d-e-r-f-u-l.
This is, more than likely, her final summer home. She and two young ladies on her team are signing a lease to rent a house on the outskirts of the college they attend.
Chicky has one more semester of school; she will graduate in December. She’ll be doing her student teaching during this final semester.
We are all praying that she finds a teaching job immediately after. Her school is known for the quality teaching candidates who graduate.
Either way, Chicky is planning on staying down there and will find some sort of job(s) to support herself after she’s walked that stage.
We still have a little over two weeks before she leaves, but there are signs of the times to come.
Chicky visited her grandparents this past weekend, and they went to a few garage sales on the hunt for bedroom furniture.
Although Chicky has her own furniture, she’s been wanting a long dresser. She wants something she can eventually refinish. She is a Pinterest addict.
She hit pay dirt when she found the following…
The deal got sweeter with the addition of the next two pieces…
We will be renting a U-Haul to take these items down south.
Chicky did some other shopping, finding a blender on clearance at Target. Coupon Queen gave Chicky a few items as well.
It’s amazing the perspective I have now.
Four years ago, I was devastated at the thought of my Chicky flying the coop.
While I’m a bit sad right now, I am also excited.
Chicky is 21 years old with a very good future ahead of her.
She is focused, and she’s been driven enough to finish college early.
Her morals are amazing, and her priorities for living a godly life are right on target.
To be able to let go of your children, you have to make yourself take a step back and remember what it was like when you were about to embark on your life away from home.
Chicky is ready, and the years between her high school graduation and now have prepared me to let go. The lapses of time between holidays and other school breaks prepared me to accept that one day, she would leave and create her own permanent home elsewhere.
Oh, that’s not to say that I won’t cry, because I probably will.
That’s also not to say that I won’t sit on pins and needles every time she makes her way home for visits, because I totally will.
I realize, however, that chicklets were not meant to stay in the nest forever, and it’s my Chicky’s turn to fly to her own coop.
When she does come to visit, though, I think I’ll make sure I always have flowers waiting, as I’ve done nearly every week this summer…
Because even after a coop has been departed from, it will forever remain home base for the chicklets who have left.
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